5th Myth about Managing Up

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Myth #5: Never say anything to the boss when you’re angry.
By Geoffrey James Copyright CNET 2007

CONVENTIONAL WISDOM:
If you’re hot under the collar, you’re likely to say things you’ll later regret.

Why it’s a myth:
Your emotions aren’t the problem; the issue is how you express them.

Try this instead:
Don’t lose your cool. When you’re frustrated or angry, say so—but without blowing up or exploding.

Avoid whiny complaining. Instead, focus on fixing the things you want to change, and ask for the boss’s help in changing them.

Example:
“Okay, I understand we need to get the report done. But let’s come up with a plan that doesn’t involve everyone working over the holiday.”

5th Myth about Managing Up